Frequently Asked Questions

  • When should we register for the party?
    You should register as soon as you can.  This will allow us to have an accurate head count for the party.  Room requests are also handled by the order they are received.  This is specifically true for poolside rooms.  Also there are times that we do sell out of rooms.  You can be added to an overflow list in case there are cancellations.
  • How do we make a special room request?
    During the registration for the party or stay-n-play package you have the opportunity to submit room requests.  Just remember, they are just that requests.  We try to fulfill all requests, but sometimes it is just not possible.  If however, you have a request for a medical condition please note that in the request.
  • Where is the party held?
    The party is held at a hotel in Benton Harbor, MI. The name and location of the hotel are only given when you register for a party.
  • What is the cost of the party?
    Each party can have a different membership fee associated with it. Membership fees are listed on the calendar.
  • When do we pay for the party membership fee?
    You can pay for the party membership fee when you check in at the party registration desk or you can prepay when you complete the reservation.  Some parties may require a prepayment for the membership fees.  These are paid by completing a reservation listed above.
  • What is the cancellation policy?
    All cancellations are taken care of by the club even for rooms.  If you have prepaid for the event you will be issued a partial refund based on timing.
    Cancellation time Refunded amount
    Up to 2 days before events All but $10
    less than 2 days before event No refund
     
  • What is the age limit for the parties?
    Everyone that attends the party must be at least 21.
  • When does the party start?
    The doors open at 7:30pm.  The dance will start at 8pm.  The party then moves to the after party at 1am and concludes at 3:00am.
  • How should I dress for the party?
    All of our parties have a theme. It is not required, but it makes the parties more fun. We often have contests and giveaways for the best dressed couple for a theme. If you choose not to dress the theme, then dress to impress. When attending lifestyle clubs it is important to put your best foot forward.
  • Is Alcohol provided?
    No. You may bring your own alcohol to the party and after party, but no glass bottles are allowed inside the pool area.  We will provide some mixers, soda, and snacks.  Small coolers are allowed to be brought into the party and the after party area.
  • I have heard the term vanilla person.  Who are they?
    Any person not in the lifestyle is considered a vanilla person.  When attending a party please try not to socialize too much with the vanilla people about the lifestyle.  Only those on the party list are allowed in so never invite them into the party.
  • How do you keep non lifestyle people out of the party?
    We have security that is placed at the doors to the party areas.
  • I have heard about a Stay-N-Play package but I'm not sure what it is.  What is included with this?
    The Stay-N-Play package includes the cost of the party and a hotel room for the night.  With this package you receive a discount on both the rack rate of the room and on the party.  This is a good option even if you live near the hotel.  The hotel room would be much cheaper than DUI or worse.
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